Social skills for typical kids
“Ohmygod” comes to visit for a play date.
It is some while since she has graced our family with her presence. Prior to the drive home from school I take the girls aside to remind them of the frequent aural agony of traveling with the boys. I stress the short nature of the journey, both in time and miles.
During the 7 minute drive to the accompaniment of Hanna Montana, sung with great gusto the boys cover their ears in the back of the car.
On arrival home, the children stampede into the house.
“Geez what is that godamawful stink!”
“Chicken Jalfrezi…..a very, very mild curry.”
“How come you eat Asian food?”
“Well “Chicken Tikka Marsala” is said to be our National dish these days. I expect you can probably smell the garlic though.”
“Yuk! Garlic is for Nazis.”
I have no terms of reference with which to comment, so I say nothing.
“Are we gonna eat that?”
“We shall, for supper, but I think you'll be back with your own family by then.”
“Aw can't I stay for supper?”
“I don't think that's in the plan.”
“What plan?”
“Er….your parents' plan.”
“How do you know what their plan is?”
“Um……I don't…….I'm just……..thinking ahead.” I'm not entirely who I'm trying to convince.
“Can I have a snack?”
“Yes, would you like Satsumas, pretzels or carrots and dip.”
“Can I have a cookie?”
I smile, “I don't think your mum would allow cookies before dinner.”
“She would.”
I'm not convinced but opt for the truth, “sorry, we're a cookie free zone at the moment.”
“No cookies!”
“I'm afraid not. I need to pop out to the shops.”
“How can you not have cookies?”
I assume this to be rhetorical and move on.
“Would you like a drink with it? Milk or water?”
“Water? Milk? Geez dontcha have any soda?” She steps towards the fridge to swing open the door, “what is all that stuff?” I look over her shoulder at 'stuff,' to try and determine what, if anything, might be odd?
“Which stuff?”
“The green stuff. Is that English food?”
I look at the bok choy, leeks and spinach.
“Er not particularly I don't think.”
“Is that why he passes wind all the godamned time?”
Such a euphemism catches me off guard, especially from this particular quarter, “quite possibly, I suppose.”
“You oughta give em American food, that'll fix him.”
“Thank you, I'll bear that in mind.”
“How come you talk so funny?”
“I expect it's the accent.”
I hope!
Post Script:-
This piece is fictitious, or rather a compendium of Friday afternoon play dates.
I think the trick is to avoid cooking whilst we have visitors as few Americans appreciate British Cuisine, let alone the residents!
May 6th, 2008 at 5:13 am
I was about to fall off of my couch… I am thankful that was fictitious. Whew!
May 6th, 2008 at 5:45 am
Ah. Other people’s kids… aren’t they fun?
May 6th, 2008 at 6:41 am
You’ve been awarded…
May 6th, 2008 at 7:16 am
ROFLMAO!! Fiction or no, this made me nearly fall out of my chair!
May 6th, 2008 at 8:56 am
You know, I’ve always said that my not-so-typical kids behave better than the supposedly-typical ones.
May 6th, 2008 at 10:24 am
“British Cuisine.” The whole thing was ROFLMAO funny before you pulled out that line! Isn’t that somewhat like “military intelligence?” Speaking as somebody who spends a lot of time
While we are not a cookie-free zone, I’m making about 3 pounds of hummus tonight from scratch for the teacher luncheon tomorrow, and anticipate that we’ll be slaughtering a half-head of garlic on that altar. That makes us Nazis? Wow. Whodathunk.
This compilation kid gives me the willies.
May 6th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
You know, you had me going until the playmate dropped a “gd” bomb! Too funny, but relatable. My sister who is a spirited OT often encourages me to have typical kids over to be with Casey, but in my attempts, have found the child usually follows me around asking questions about Casey and trying to see what we eat in the fridg and cupboard! Loved the story!
May 6th, 2008 at 2:29 pm
Our lack of soda gets a comment every time. So glad at the end to hear this is a compilation and not a real afternoon. You’re a very gifted writer.
May 6th, 2008 at 5:49 pm
I’ve had similar encounters.
I wonder if those kids have ever had boot to the head cassarole?
May 6th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
Pretty funny!!! We’re so all over the board w/ eating. It isn’t just UK traditions… it is how we’ve atrophied or changed here, too.
May 6th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
no soda or cookies at house of lime either. and we pass wind all the damned time too
May 6th, 2008 at 7:31 pm
You have far too much tolerance, fictitious or not. Perhaps you can put in a (fictitious) post of her getting, as Hammer so aptly describes it, boot to the head casserole.
May 6th, 2008 at 9:58 pm
Sounds like dinner to me—bring on the bok choy.