Most commonly mis-spelled word, Friend

Spelling is one skill that’s often overlooked, especially if a child can read and understand the meaning of the words that he reads. Spelling that word correctly is quite another matter and may be complicated by poor writing skills, memory retention and the ability to do more than one thing at a time e.g. remember the word, the order of the letters, aural processing and the many steps of writing.

Overall, spelling can be a painful trial, a weekly dreaded nightmare where doom and failure are guaranteed. However, if you happen to have a visual learner, quite often you can take the list of words and fiddle with it until it’s a better match to the child.

Sometimes simply adding color can help patterns pop that weren’t immediately obvious.

Or Linking letters so that they stay in the right place.

Early:-

Many children already know how to spell ‘ear’ and ‘hear’ so use it.

Ask your child what time is ‘early’? for them. Curiously, they each differ and make no reference to any event such as breakfast or bedtime. There seems to be no differentiation between night and day, but they’re adamant about their particular time being early – wonder if it will be the same for you?

Then just tailor the time to fit your child.

Instead:-

Many children can remember how to spell ‘tea’ without too many difficulty. If so, you can use this visual to tie it in with so many of the vagaries of the English language.

A few steps to help along the road to success.

1. Show them the picture.
2. Describe the different parts and note the colors [use your child's favorites]
Check you’re using the same language ‘ring/fence/oval/corral.’
3. Ask them to touch the different letters with a finger or point with a pencil if digit/ paper challenged.
4. Afterwards ask them to shut their eyes and describe the scene again and ask them to visualize each bit – they can peek to check.
5. Ask them to spell the word out loud – allow them to ‘cheat’ and peek if necessary.
6. Repeat as necessary.

Cannot – those double ‘n’s can be a right pain.

Isn’t – Is not

Don’t let those tricky contractions fool you, just visualize them shrinking into a tadpole.

One of the most commonly misspelled words is the word friend. How many of us have been assaulted by ‘fiends?’ How can we best remember how to spell it correctly, and not just for the test?

For us it’s easy [or soon will be - I hope]

Name for favorite food?

Yes, that’s right, chips, otherwise known as fried potatoes.

Are you familiar with different types of potatoes?

Of course.

How about the “Nadine.”

Take your favorite food and insert a potato, a Nadine Potato.

How can you tell if you’ve inserted your potato in the right spot?

The N of the Nadine should match the END of the word, right after the FRI.

Do not substitute a real Nadine for a potato.

Not everyone can be a Spelling Bee star, nor do they necessarily want to, but this way our children get to experience success in a tricky area, without too much pain.

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11 Comments

  1. Adelaide Dupont:

    Love this visual spelling.

    I often spell “freind” for “friend”.

    And it’s good to remember the fry.

    I also enjoyed reading about how you link letters.

  2. Marita:

    We’ve been struggling with Annie’s spelling, I’ve got a post coming up soon about our solution.

    The speech therapist said Annie memorises words as pictures so she see’s the whole picture of the word rather than the individual letter breakdown.

  3. fighting for my children:

    Where do you get such interesting ideas? that is so creative.

  4. Niksmom:

    BRILLIANT!! Now, if only I could draw… I think you could make soe extra cash by drawing spelling lists for people, Maddy. You know, in your “spare” time. (I ALMOST said that with a straight face!)

  5. farmwifetwo:

    I tried those methods and discovered it actually made more confusion. I have discovered with my boys that KISS is the only way to go and it works well with all of the 3R’s. Good thing b/c I’m a fan of Classical Ed methods and use them at home.

    Take a list of words. Discuss them. Pictures etc. Use Writing with Symbols, little boy has learned the symbols for most words but rarely needs them unless they are new words.

    Give child list.

    Have child write out – copy from list – words 3 to 4 times daily for a week. Eldest paper and pencil, little boy computer and W w/ S.

    Kid tends to get 100% on Fri’s spelling test – both.

    I can’t get them to do it if I say the word and they spell it. Have them write it, look at it, sends it into long term memory – eldest’s short term is tested poor… little boy is the visual one of the bunch…

    Seems to work.

  6. Joeymom:

    Absolutely wonderful. Joey is an ace speller (you spell a word one way, and it is always spelled that way, so bingo-bango, he has it), but my mom might like this a lot…

  7. Crystal Jigsaw:

    Amy spells everything as she says it. For some reason this isn’t something she’s always done but something she’s recently started doing. Very confusing.

    CJ xx

  8. Jayne:

    We used to use similar ideas for my son’s spelling, good to see it written out with illustrations like this :)

  9. Barbara:

    You are brilliant.

  10. Tanya @ TeenAutism:

    My goodness, you are amazing!

  11. Elizabeth Channel:

    Such fun! You are so creative! I could never post the pictures I try to draw!
    .-= Elizabeth Channel´s last blog ..How much do I hate thee, Neopets? Let me count the ways… =-.