A Book Review
This is a great book for anyone starting a journey of discovery following a diagnoses of autism. It may seem curious at first to know that an adult, and in this case a parent, has been diagnosed with autism, but it is becoming far more commonplace than we might ever have imagined a few years ago, which makes this book especially timely.
Written with teenagers and young people in mind, Barbara writes with a casual, warm and approachable style which avoids being patronizing. When she uses a term which may be unfamiliar to her audience, she also includes a simple definition of the word which greatly helps the flow and understanding of the reader.
The book is divided into chapters covering the primary issues which will be of interest and importance to any young person trying to understand their parent. She writes sympathetically to both parent and child discussing many of the common concerns and worries of young people to aid understanding and empathy.
I particularly liked the style of worksheets in that they are brief and on point. Also the idea that both parent and child work on the same questions and issues should be illuminating for both parties.
Barbara illustrates the text with examples of her own experiences with her ASD father which helps clarify the condition and provides ample proof that she has lived through, survived and thrived what many others are also experiencing.
My only issue with this book is the usual one:- how to reach the people who most need it? In this particular instance, that may prove to be a diplomatic nightmare.
The books ends with a brief discussion about the stigma associated with autism but the finale, for me at least, was a worksheet where both parent and child can list their strengths – although there should be an extra blank page to allow for a run on : )
You can check out Barbara R Lester here.
Available from JKP.